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Tuesday, December 31 2019 / Published in Sidelines Feature

The Impact of Coaching Techniques

Margie Sugarman

By Margie Sugarman

My trainer, although great, can be quite harsh. Recently we were at a horse show where she loudly and publicly scolded another rider for something she did while showing. What my friend did was in no way dangerous; it was just a minor bad habit that she’s been having a hard time breaking. Now I’m consumed with concern that my trainer will publicly humiliate me over something minor as well. I’m concerned about her attitude toward correcting her riders — can this type of coaching be beneficial?

Effective coaching runs deeper than winning a ribbon. Coaching includes reaching athletes on an individual level. Coaches should hold a place of not only authority but also of respect. Ideally, the student should be able to look at their coach as a role model as well as a mentor. The challenge of coaching is being able to balance rationale and logic in teaching the student along with emotional awareness. Fostering a strong coach/athlete relationship is important for performance as well as for the athlete’s growth as a moral, ethical and positive person.

Observing the schooling areas at shows allows one to learn quite a bit about personal interactions, the building of skills, and the development of positive moral and ethical behaviors. Research of human dynamics has shown that through strong relationships and a physical, mental and emotional approach to coaching, young athletes will develop as people and perform better. An effective coach possesses skills that revolve around honesty and positivity. There is empathy and understanding, when needed, to make a point and help the athlete develop. Such coaches accept, support and respect their students, where criticisms are made in ways that support growth and avoid humiliation. Coaching is a difficult job because, among other traits and skills, it entails always being “on” as a role model and good example.

Listen to the soft voices around the rings of the riders who are trying to hold back tears and hide their embarrassment because they’ve just publicly been embarrassed and yelled at. Are their coaches being good role models and effective teachers, fostering a strong relationship based on mutual respect with their riders?

The coach/athlete relationship is crucial because of its effect on the athlete. Young athletes are particularly susceptible to the effects of their surroundings, the ideas of others and the presentation of critical comments. When the goal of training is purely winning, it comes with a strong possibility of introducing ethical, psychological and interpersonal dilemmas.

Success without the development of effective personal relationships might produce an athlete with ability, but they will lack in the area of personal growth.

Most coaches appreciate that their job is more than just skill development — it truly is a huge factor in setting up the young athlete for success in life. Remoteness, pessimism, inappropriate communication and lack of true interest are key characteristics to avoid when choosing a coach. Irritability leads to ineffective communication and, ultimately, to an ineffective relationship. These characteristics do not foster a healthy foundation for positive relationships; instead, they often exploit the malleable minds of young athletes in the pursuit of winning ribbons.

The real victories are found in positive personal connections, which generate trust, enhanced communication and, ultimately, a winning attitude.

Coach Herb Brooks once said, “Success is won by those who believe in winning and then prepare for that moment. However, the elements that constitute that preparation determine winning as a person, not just an athlete.”

 

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A column from Liz Halliday-Sharp herself The spor A column from Liz Halliday-Sharp herself 
The sport of eventing is a demanding and mentally challenging discipline that requires a combination of physical and mental fortitude from both the rider and horse. While having a coach can be incredibly beneficial, self-coaching can also play a crucial role in a rider’s success.

I think that given the opportunity, most riders would like to be coached every day. The reality of life in the horse world, however, is that the majority of us need to absorb as much from the lessons we have on a limited basis and then practice those skills at home to improve.

When I am riding, I try to have a plan for the horses each day and focus on what I’m looking to achieve. It’s important to be aware of the steady improvements rather than trying to solve everything all at once. This is especially important when teaching horses new movements or exercises that they might struggle with, and we need to give them time to learn and understand what we are asking for.

I have a couple of quotes that I use regularly when I’m teaching, and these are mottos that I hold myself to in my daily work as well.

The first is, “If you do what you have always done, you will get what you have always gotten.” This is a quote that was said to me many years ago when I was still motor racing and I keep it in the back of my mind each day. It’s easy to get stuck doing the same thing every day with your horse and bad habits are hard to break, from both riders and horses!

This leads me to my next quote, which is, “If what you are doing isn’t working, try something else.” It really is as simple as that! Many riders I see keep asking a horse to do something the same way over and over with an ongoing negative response and they wonder why things don’t get better. In these circumstances, I recommend that the rider change something, even if it’s wrong.

Read the full article by clicking the link in our bio! Don’t forget to keep your eye out for our April subscription!
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The✨April issue✨ of Sidelines Magazine is here The✨April issue✨ of Sidelines Magazine is here and we are so excited to feature three-day eventer Liz Halliday on the cover! Big thanks to photographer Melissa Fuller for the beautiful photo of Liz and Cooley Nutcracker- Liz Halliday-Sharp - HS Eventing. Liz and her horses have taken the eventing world by storm - and find out how Liz is at the top of the sport as a female eventer! As the horse world gears up for the Land Rover Kentucky Three-Day Event 2023, it's the perfect time to enjoy our eventing issue!! We also feature eventer and woman entrepreneur Frankie Thieriot Stutes, who is not only an eventer, but also runs Athletux and FRANKIE CAMERON handbags and accessories. And don't miss our eventing story on Robert "Bobby" Costello, who will be leading the US Eventing team to the 2024 Paris Olympics- and US Equestrian has named Bobby the eventing technical advisor/chef d'equipe!! Liz, Frankie and Bobby all have GREAT stories - don't miss any of them and don't forget to get your tickets for the Land Rover Kentucky Three-Day event! We are also excited to introduce you to hunter-jumper rider Casey Lorusso Smith, who is not only a talented rider but also a psychotherapist and incorporates horses into her career. If you are up for adventure, then read the story on dressage rider Priscilla Baldwin who certainly doesn't let any grass grow under her feet! We also head to the west coast to catch up with hunter-jumper trainer Jim Hagman of Elvenstar Farm, we feature beautiful art by equestrian artist Tammy Tappan, and we get to know Miranda Jones and her family. Miranda is not only an attorney who spends a lot of time in the courthouse, but she's a rider and spends lots of time riding, and is joined by her daughters also! We are excited to feature Stephanie Lightner in our Unbridled column, and don't miss our columnists George Williams, Robert R.L. Jacobs and Margie Sugarman! It's a great issue - and you can read it online, but don't forget to go to the website and order a subscription and get every issue delivered to your mailbox!! Enjoy this issue and enjoy the ride: Link in bio!!
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Marie Meyers has been around the world because of Marie Meyers has been around the world because of dressage, but it’s her farm in Moorpark, California, that has captured her heart. The farm and the business that thrives there represent Marie’s lifelong journey—a journey made up of good friends, spectacular horses and relationships made to last.

Marie was raised in Southern California, and spent her childhood playing just about every sport under the sun, but she didn’t discover riding until she was 14 years old. “I loved animals so much, so I started taking lessons. I did jumping at first, but I was very bad at that, for sure!” Marie laughed.

After some time, Marie moved on to take lessons at Foxfield Riding Academy and began riding dressage. “I fell into dressage by accident,” Marie said, “At the beginning, I thought it was extremely boring, but then I got hooked. By the time I graduated from high school, I had plans to travel to England to work for Franz Rochowansky, a former head of the Spanish Riding School.”

In 1988, Marie’s hard work paid off, and the pair was selected as alternates for the 1988 Summer Olympic Games. “They didn’t take the alternates that year, so we didn’t go to Seoul, but the experience, the training and the European Tour afterwards set me up for the 1990 World Equestrian Games in Stockholm, Sweden,” Marie said.

In addition to having success representing her country, Marie was busy with her life—marriage, a business, teaching lessons and clinics. 

Learn more about Marie in this month's edition of Sidelines Magazine. Click the link in our bio for more 🦄

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